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Moving toward Success
Visualization
is a powerful tool to create what we want in our life. Many of us already
use visualization and are not aware of it. Sometimes we use our imagination
in positive, success-oriented ways, sometimes in limiting ways. Because
of deep-seated negative concepts about ourselves, we often automatically
and subconsciously expect and imagine limitations and problems.
The process
of change and growth does not occur on superficial levels, like through
mere "positive thinking". It involves exploring, discovering,
and changing our deepest, most basic attitudes to life.
Because
most of the following process is done in a relaxed, trance-like state
of consciousness, your level of awareness on a focal point is much higher
than in your normal waking state of consciousness. During this heightened
focus and awareness, intentions and suggestions appear to go directly
into the subconscious mind, and you can transform areas of yourself that
are normally out of reach of your conscious mind. Once your subconscious
mind holds success-oriented beliefs, you automatically think and act in
a way that makes you succeed, therefore manifesting your goals. You will
notice that your creative energy flows more freely. When this happens,
you attract success into your life.
You can
either memorize the following visualizations, have someone read them to
you, or record them on tape in your own voice.
I.
Accessing Inner Wisdom
First, close
your eyes and relax by taking three deep, slow breaths, quietly saying
"I am relaxing" as you breath in and "I am letting go"
as you breathe out. Let your thoughts move through your mind like clouds
trough the sky without paying attention to them.
Visualize
a safe, comfortable, and quiet place. Look around at your safe place,
listen to the sounds around you, smell the air and bring your attention
to your feelings and body sensations. Find an especially nice spot at
your safe place to make yourself very comfortable, and relax even more.
Now "invite"
to your safe place a wise, intuitive, loving and compassionate being.
This is your Inner Advisor, who will guide you to success. Your Inner
Advisor knows you very deeply, even though you may or may not know each
other in real life. This process connects you with your inner wisdom and
intuition. Ask your Inner Advisor for support in the following process
and wait until he/she agrees to support you. The response may come in
words or in other ways. Just be open to receive the answer.
If several
advisors appear, choose the one who seems most helpful right now. If you
cant perceive an Inner Advisor, keep visualizing your safe place
once a day for one week and try again, or imagine a wise and compassionate
person you know.
II.
Examining Limiting Beliefs
Limiting
beliefs are: "I dont deserve success", "I am afraid
of the power I might gain through my success", "there is not
enough to go around", "others will envy and not like me any
more if I am successful", or "it is selfish to want plenty".
Start working
with your limiting beliefs in the following way. Draw four columns on
a plain sheet of paper. Write your limiting beliefs in the first column.
In the second column, write how true each belief really is today. In the
third column, write how each limiting belief serves you (i.e. protection,
maintain certain self-image, keep things the same). In the fourth column,
write how each belief inhibits your creative fulfillment.
If any
part of this is unclear, close your eyes, take some deep breaths, and
consult with your Inner Advisor. Take the first response you get.
III.
Setting Goals
- Choose
an area in which you would like to be (more) successful, such as work/career,
money, relationships, creative self-expression, health, etc.
- Keeping
in mind your present life situation, write down what you would like
to improve in this area. Dont think too hard about it. Simply
write down any ideas that come to mind.
- Write,
"If I could be, do, and have everything I want, this would be my
ideal future life in the area of
". Describe your ideal situation
beyond your present limits. Let your imagination go wild.
- With
your eyes closed, create a mental picture for yourself in this ideal
scene. Look around, listen to sounds around you, smell the air, and
bring your attention to your feelings and body sensations in this new
world. Capture this new aspect of your life fully and enjoy it.
- Based
on what seems most meaningful from the ideal scene, write a list of
the three to five most important goals which you will have achieved
once you are there. You can always revise this list.
- Choose
the goals you would like to achieve within the next five years. Write
them down in the form of affirmations, in present tense (i.e. "I
support myself easily and abundantly through achieving..."). Put
this list at a place where it will catch your eyes frequently.
- Repeat
this process with your goals for one year, six months, one month, and
one week from now. Be realistic about how much you can accomplish in
the shorter-range goals and check to see that they are in alignment
with your longer-range goals.
If you
get stuck at any point during this process close your eyes, take some
deep breaths, and consult with your Inner Advisor. Hold your goals lightly.
IV.
Visualizing Success
- Sit or
lie comfortably, close your eyes, and breathe deeply, slowly, and naturally.
Gradually relax deeper and deeper.
- Imagine
your Inner Advisor and ask for support as described in step I.
- Imagine
that you bathe in the water of a refreshing river with a comfortable
temperature. Picture in your minds eye that this water washes
away all your limiting beliefs, self images, and doubts. When none are
left, you imagine that you leave the water and return to your safe place.
- Now you
can either tell yourself or let your Inner Advisor tell you the following
phrases (you dont need to believe them yet but stay open to receive
the messages):
- I am
grateful for what I have already achieved (take some time to remember
your achievements).
- I enjoy
the learning process that it takes to achieve my goals.
- I spend
adequate time to ensure success of my goals and take sufficient rest
pauses to remain alert and efficient.
- I treat
failures as merely pointers to a new path to success.
- I have
increasing belief in my abilities and know that I will succeed.
- As my
belief in my own abilities increases, I see my potential as unlimited.
- As my
creative energy flows freely, success flows into my life.
- Now choose
one of your goals. Imagine yourself at a future time. By then you will
have already realized your goal. Picture this situation clearly in your
minds eye. Let all your senses (seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting,
and feeling) capture this scene. Enjoy this experience as long as you
like. If doubts arise, allow and acknowledge them and gently
come back to the image.
- Step
out of the picture. Imagine that a pink bubble surrounds your future
vision.
- Let go
of the bubble and imagine it floating off into the sky, still containing
your vision.
V.
Flashing Success
Bring the
success image (as in step IV) to mind, just long enough for it to seem
real. Dont apply any particular effort, but give full reliance to
belief and imagination. It is best to close your eyes as you flash your
success.
Each time
you "flash" your success, you speed up the realization of your
goal using known principles of learning and receptivity of the mind at
stages of "natural trance".
Recommended
times are:
- First
thing in the morning on awakening, as you ease from natural sleep into
wakefulness.
- Last
thing at night as you drift into natural sleep from normal wakefulness.
These
are states of "natural trance".
- Before
each meal, pausing before taking the first mouthful to "flash"
the success image into your mind for a few seconds. The strong positive
"reinforcer" food follows the conscious evocation of the success
image at the mental level and therefore strengthens the adoption of
the image.
- As many
times as possible during the day, especially in moments of boredom,
inactivity, or negative feeling states.
VI.
Maintaining Success
Keep adjusting
your goals and continue to go through steps IV and V frequently. Enjoy
the process!
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